Forgive me for such a strange question, but still. My guy likes to treat sex at work in his office. We work together. But the unusual way of entertainment. That is, instead of a penis, he inserts his fingers. I reach orgasm this way. But it hurts a question - whether he can make the infection via the hands. Although he wipe his hands with alcohol. And yet - I have erosion of the cervix, genital herpes and the candidates (for the moment, I lechus a gynecologist). How bad is the dalliance with such sore. Can I add pestiferous?

Why not do enter, it quickly spread, if the active form of herpes, but taking into account the availability of candidates, those games still not safe, because candidates, it has, inter alia, well-lived, if the vagina is violated function of self, and his hands, or wipe with alcohol as without proper handling, will not be sterile, which means the intestinal bacterium is present. Yes, it is present everywhere at all. Do you already have a small breach (taking into account the erosion, there you ektopiya likely). So just little by little, but what will result is unknown. But if you have a true erosion - is clearly such games are contraindicated, can traumatize the affected mucous membrane. But the real erosion can be found in such games.

No, better not to get involved. Good - little by little

I have a real erosion. A normal sexual intercourse does not hurt mucous membrane?
Can the period of treatment is to give up sex?

E-e-e-e of any sex? From the normal, generally accepted sex or of different individual games? Generally a doctor always warned that the period of treatment need to give to any sex.

Well, if only at the end of sexual partners grow teeth .
Actually it hurt, but not to the point of true erosion.

About intim games .. Checked by a doctor, a gynecologist, all right.
Recently, having decided to diversify our sex life, my young man was invited to play with fruit, or rather with a banana (with skin) (sorry for the frankness) .. I initially agreed, but took time, and then I think about whether some of its penetration inside me as a negative influence on the flora in the vagina? Although in my opinion, there is no indication, but the issue is concerned ..
sorry and thanks.

No problem. Simply feed the flora of fruit - it is useful.