Hello.
Greatly concerned about several issues.
I'm 19 years old. Partners, too. Lost virginity 5 months ago.
First, it was all right. Almost did not have pain and itching.
Vaginal orgasm is not received, but not worried about this, knowing that the first orgasm can be obtained only after years of sexual activity sex.
Somewhere in the third month, has been itching, but then prshel. Went to the consultation. Inserts plugs.
Then came a case that made me nervous for about a false pregnancy with delayed menses for three weeks, but it turned out that this is because of the sports hall.
We started to worry severe pain at the bottom of the stomach after sex or at the second time of committing sexual intercourse. Excitement is always there, but the orgasm did not occur, and now the pain started, which wants to climb a wall. Partner understands and everything stops.
I think that the pain starts from the fact that I did not get the orgasm. Partner full confidence and like relax.
Worry on this account so that lost all desire and excitement.
Give what you can do?

Hello

About the first orgasm: this sequence is not strict, even statistically. In fact, it might be like after 1 month, and after 2 months, can immediately, but may in a few years, all in different ways.
It is possible that your assumption about the true nature of pain, of course, ruled out a second trip to the gynecologist is not, but the cause may give such indications. Start with a can of themselves will study its sensitivity to know how and what your body feels. If there is any effect, you can think of visiting a specialist. Based on his experience I would say that the issue is resolved.